What is it about? How do we make a Soft BDSM in Dharma Massages Madrid? Here we expand a little the most frequent questions that you ask us …

BDSM, what is it?

Well, the truth encompasses a lot of terms or ideals. The most important are contained in their initials: Bondage and Discipline; Domination and Submission; Sadism and Masochism.
It brings enough with it and it is not appealing to everyone’s taste expressed like that, although deep down, it seems a lot of people like it a lot but it is not expressed frequently …

The truth…

The truth is that it is a fairly old practice, but that has become fashionable after the Fifty Shades Movie. In Dharma Massages Madrid we give you some tips and more common things about how and what BDSM is, and how we apply it in one of our most exotic erotic massages: Soft BDSM by Dharma.
The most important thing that I tell you about this type of practice is communication, and that this act is done in a way that is allowed by both parties, that the idea is not to hurt, but to add a bit of spice either to a romantic encounter, to a massage, to an experiment between adults,

always always always consciously and accepted by both parties, not to generate violence at any time.

Playing the role of the submissive, should not bring with it the aggressiveness !! On the contrary, the person who dominates must be very creative, subtle and gentle, so that the meeting is much more than rewarding!

Are there limits within BDSM?

There are, yes! Imagine that you want to put it into practice with your partner, the key is the security and comfort that you can both transmit to add this pleasure to your relationships!
The sexual interests, the limits of what you like or not of this practice, and comfort, are a fundamental part.

The BDSM

The BDSM have a lot of dynamism, communication and respect, the opposite of what we see when putting in a search engine this contraction of words, which directly go to images and / or too standardized videos, leather, whip and more.
It should be implicitly or nothing  and as I have been writing to you above, it is quite more dynamic and there are many ways to put it into practice in your relationship, or as in our case to an exotic and different massage!

If you do not like what you are experiencing, it is best to park it to try again at another time, or change the way you are doing it. That is, I go back and repeat, total communication.

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There are many things that it would be good to know before immersing yourself in the world of BDSM.
Ask all the questions you need, your partner, masseuse and even yourself. What do I want from this? Will it be confortable for me? Do I know everything I need to know? …
Whatever you can think of, but that I give you and your partner the peace of mind that it is something healthy, that the idea is to add a little more spice to your meetings …
On the other hand, and it is one of the most important things that we add in this BDSM Role-Playing in our massage is the use of a secure keyword.

Secure keyword…

As safe as the colors of the traffic light. This facilitates the person who is dominating (in our case the masseuse) to know when to stop if something is not right, or if you have had enough of something in particular.
As we do here in our Dharma Madrid Massage Center, we advise you to do it at home. That is to say, to fix a key word, that gives you security to both.
To continue, decrease or simply stop. There’s no more to it.
So, what is BDSM?
After having explained that they are “acronyms” of several words and everything that comes with it in its most general aspect, we explain what might contain:
Dominion and Submission: In this case and in a general way, it is about giving the “power” to the other over the one who “gives it up”. It is to say, one “dominates” the “submissive”. It is a more mental ritual.
Sadism and Masochism: In this case it is something more corporal. It goes beyond inflicting “pain” on the partner, ties, gags, always within a consent and understanding of the practice (it would be ideal).

So, is it everything about the pain? On the contrary, it is about feeling and giving pleasure and power.

When you manage to open communicatively with your partner or masseuse, it is when this practice becomes “safe” and can lead you to new levels of sexual pleasure.

In the next Post

Dharma Massages Madrid tells you a little more about BDSM and its more eccentric massage: SOFT BDSM where our most genuine masseuses will guide you and elevate the pleasure to higher levels